Allah created us ONLY to worship Him.

DR Haitham said:

“Brothers and sisters need to understand that the time they spend in worship of Allah will produce barakah outside of worship, making them more productive and efficient. This is why a person should not rush his prayers thinking he has more important matters to attend to.”

حفظه الله

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Good manners.

Good manners are from the inheritance left behind by the prophets. They are among the qualities of the God-conscious and the heaviest thing that will be placed on the Scale. The one with good manners is the most beloved of people to Allah and the closest in council to the prophets.

حسن الخلق من ميراث النبوة ومن صفات المتقين و أثقل مايوضع بالميزان و إن صاحبه أحب الناس إلى الله وأقربهم من النبيين مجلسا

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Humans and errors.

Allah has destined for man to fall into error to remind him of his weakness and the perfection of his Lord. If man was to always be correct, he would forget his Lord and deny His existence, but Allah causes him to fall into error so that he turns to Him, thus not becoming arrogant nor transgressing.

يقدّر الله الخطأ على الإنسان ليذكّره بضعفه وكمال ربه، ولو أصاب الإنسان دوماً لنسي ربه وألحد، ولكن يوقعه ليلتفت إليه فلا يتكبر ولا يطغى

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Islamic parenting: On Parents, Children and Parenting.

“…Mothers play a great role in building a generation. The better a mother is at raising her children, the more successfully the Ummah is built and the more successful it is at producing heroes. You hardly ever see a great man except that a great woman is behind him who left some of her traits in his personality by way of the milk from which he was fed and the warm embrace in which he sought refuge.

Most men find it hard to remove these shining images from their minds that they retain of their mothers. These outstanding images that ran through his veins from a young age remain engraved in his mind, and he cannot help but to remember them with veneration and pride. He recalls the simple, clear words that his mother left his spirit with, and these words grow to become milestones on his path and guiding lights on his quest.

He cannot help but to place himself under the vast shade that his mother provided for him throughout the long course of his life, nurtured by the pleasant emotions and mixed with the eternal days of his life. These realities grow in his spirit and become an inseparable part of his personality that he cannot let go of without letting go of his humanity.

This is why preserving this affection and repaying this kindness with kindness is an obligation in Islam that is directly partnered with Tawhid: {“…and your Lord ordained that you worship only Him, and that you treat your parents with excellence…”} [al-Isra’; 23] And disobedience to them is directly partnered with kufr.

Respect for mothers occupies a very high position on the ladder of Islam, and is very heavy in its scales. It is reported in the ‘Sahih’ that a man came to the Messenger of Allah (صلى الله عليه و سلم) and said: “O Messenger of Allah, who is most deserving of my kind treatment?” He replied: “Your mother.” The man asked: “Then who?” He replied: “Your mother.” The man asked again: “Then who?” He replied: “Your mother.” The man asked again: “Then who?” He replied: “Your father.”

I once said to Ibrahim al-Akhdar – the imam of the Haram in Makkah – “Why do you prevent your sweet voice from being heard by the Muslims who come from everywhere to hear it? How can you request to return to Madinah when some people say that hearing you recite the Qur’an is like hearing it descending fresh from the heavens?”

So, he replied: “My treasures in this world are my grandmother and mother, and I must fulfill my responsibilities to them and treat them well. Nobody can do this but me.”

I said: “Why don’t you bring your grandmother here?”

He said: “She refuses to leave Madinah out of fear that she might die outside of it, and her greatest wish is to be buried in the graveyard of al-Baqi’.”

And indeed, Ibrahim actually left the Haram in Makkah and went back to leading a small mosque in Madinah, sticking to the Paradise that is at the foot of his mother and grandmother…”

[‘Majallah’; #36, Rabi’ al-Awwal 1408]

Taken from Iskandrani.

Islamic Parenting: On Tarbiyah

Tarbiyyah (upbringing) of children is among the greatest deeds that do not cease, for every good deed that they learn and act upon the reward is for the one who taught them, and if they go on to teach their children the reward would be for the first teacher.

تربية الأولاد من أعظم الأعمال التي لا تنقطع، فكل عمل صالح تعلموه وعملوا به فالأجر لمن علّمهم ولو علَّموا ذرياتهم لكان الأجر للمعلّم الأول

Sh Abdul Aziz at-Tarefe