Truly in the heart there is a void that can not be removed except with the company of Allah. And in it there is a sadness that can not be removed except with the happiness of knowing Allah and being true to Him. And in it there is an emptiness that can not be filled except with love for Him and by turning to Him and always remembering Him. And if a person were given all of the world and what is in it, it would not fill this emptiness.
A person’s tongue can give you the taste of his heart.
“A friend will not (literally) share your struggles, an a loved one cannot physically take away your pain, and a close one will not stay up the night on your behalf…so look after yourself, protect it, nurture it…and don’t give life’s events more than what they are really worth…Be certain that when you break no one will heal you except you, and when you are defeated no one will give you victory except your determination…your ability to stand up again and carry on is your responsibility…Do not look for your self worth in the eyes of people; look for your worth from within your conscience…if your conscience is at peace then you will ascend high…and if you truly know yourself then what is said about you won’t harm you.
Do not carry the worries of this life… because this is for Allah…and do not carry the worries of sustenance because it is from Allah…and do not carry the anxiety for the future because it is in the Hands of Allah…
Carry one thing: How to Please Allah. Because if you please Him, He Pleases you, fulfills you and enriches you. Do not weep from a life that made your heart weep…just say “oh Allah compensate me with good in this life and the hereafter”.
Sadness departs with a sajdah…happiness comes with a sincere du’a…Allah Does Not forget the good you do…nor Do He Forget the good you did to others and the pain you relieved them from…Nor Will He Forget the eye which was about to cry but you made it laugh…
Live your life with this principle: Be good even if you don’t receive good…not because of other’s sake but because Allah Loves the good doers”.
Upon being insulted, Abu AdDardaa – the companion of the Prophet (PBUH) responded:
” يا هذا لا تغرقنَّ في سبنا ودع للصلح موضعاً ، فإنا لا نكافئ من عصى الله فينا بأكثر من أن نطيع الله عزّ وجلّ فيه “
“O so and so, do not go overboard in insulting me and keep room for reconciliation, for I respond to those who disobey Allah with regards to me by obeying Allah with regards to them.”
A man insulted Imam Ash-Sha’bi, so he responded:
إن كنتُ كما قلتَ فغفر الله لي ، وإن لم أكن كما قلتَ فغفر الله لك
“If I am as you say, then may Allah pardon me, and if I am not, then may Allah pardon you.”
A man said to Diraar Ibnul Qa’qaa’,
والله لو قلتَ واحدةً لسمعت عشراً
“By Allah, if you insult me just once, I will respond with ten!”
والله لو قلتَ عشراً ما سمعتَ واحدة
“By Allah, if you insulted me ten times, I will not even respond with one.”
وَإِذَا خَاطَبَهُمُ الْجَاهِلُونَ قَالُوا سَلاماً
“and when the ignorant address them harshly, they say words of peace” (Al-Qur’aan, Surah 25, Ayah 63)
The believer has so much on his mind with regards to his journey to Allah and the Home of the Hereafter that his/her heart finds no place within it to store the insults of people, nor do they possess the time to think much over them.
They compare life to a market place that lasts very briefly, and in the end, some walk away having made profits whilst others having lost everything.
Malik Ibn Deenar said,
“I was once returning from travel on a boat. We reached a bridge where a man was making travellers pay a toll charge. He shouted, “None of you are to leave the boat nor are you allowed to move!” I took my garment, placed it on my shoulder, jumped off the boat and landed on the coast. He said to me, “Why have you left?!” I said, “I don’t have anything” So he said, “Off you go then”.
I said to myself, “This is exactly how the Hereafter will be.”
Malik’s possessions were the fewest, so he was set free the quickest.
Such a narration causes one’s heart to sink.
At a time when Allah has given us *far* more than Malik’s single garment, one struggles to imagine how one’s reckoning will be.
Worse still are those whose accumulations have come from sources of Haraam.
The door for change temporarily remains open.
We ask you, O Allah, to ease our accountability on the Day of Standing, as well as that of our parent’s and loved ones.
The Shahada can be declared as follows :
“ASH-HADU AN LA ELAHA ILLA-ALLAH WA ASH-HADU ANNA MOHAMMADAN RASUL-ALLAH”.
The English translation is :
“I bear witness that there is no deity (none truly to be worshipped) but, Allah, and I bear witness that Mohammad is the messenger of Allah.”
However, it would not be sufficient for anyone to only utter this testimony oraly either in private or in public; but rather, he should believe in it by heart with a firm conviction and unshakeable faith. If one is truly sincere and complies with the teachings of Islam in all his life, he will find himself a new born person.
Ibn Taymiyyah stated:
“The Qur’aan is a healing for what is in the chests and for whoever has the diseases of doubts and lusts in his heart .. The Qur’aan removes those diseases that bring about evil desires until the heart becomes sound, thereby making its intentions sound. It then returns to its natural state in which it was created like a body returns to its natural healthy state. The heart is fed with faith and the Qur’aan purify it and support it like a body is fed with what makes it grow and strengthens it. The growth and purification of the heart is like the growth of the body”
• Majmu al Fatawa, V.10 Pg.95-96